Why Are Kids Today So Addicted to Digital Devices?
On the subway today, I saw a kid who looked like an elementary school student watching nothing but YouTube Shorts for a full 30 minutes. The parents were just scrolling on their phones right next to them. I loved playing games when I was young too, but it feels like a completely different world now. There are plenty of studies showing this is bad for kids' brain development, and as a parent, I'm wondering how to handle it. Has anyone here successfully managed their child's digital device usage?
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The findings on brain development are indeed concerning. But rather than completely banning it, wouldn't it be better to use it educationally? For example, recommending coding or creative apps can be both fun for kids and beneficial for their development.
I've consulted about a similar concern, and they said consistent rules from parents are the most important. Try starting with small rules like turning off devices after 7 PM. Kids follow along better than you'd think.
If parents are also looking at their phones, it's hard to say the problem is only with the kids, isn't it? It seems like adults setting a good example with digital device use is the first step. I also set specific times for phone use at home.
I have a son in the 4th grade of elementary school. Instead of YouTube, I helped him find offline hobbies like LEGO and board games. At first, he didn't want to do them, but when we did them together, he started to enjoy them. Time-limiting apps are also helpful.
I've had a similar experience. I was worried because my child seemed to disconnect from reality whenever they looked at a tablet, but after building a habit of spending time at the library or in the park, it gradually got better. I think activities that parents join in on are important too.
The term 'addiction' might be a bit too strong. These days, it's natural for kids to grow up in a digital environment, and if anything, they're just highly adaptable. A more realistic approach would be for parents to help choose content and set time limits.